It’s best to go after your big goal in short, easy steps. Let’s say you want a girlfriend and you get one. Next, you may want one with a bigger chest. Then one with a chest that’s real. Next you'll want a woman who doesn’t think sex is icky; then a woman with her own fingerprints.
See how easy life becomes when you follow a logical progression? Keep making improvements and refinements until you have exactly what you want. Working up to your goal in short, easy steps is the best way to take on new challenges and encourage yourself to grow. It will force you to make a plan, meet deadlines, and stop wearing your wrestling outfit to the Home Owners Association meetings.